Coy Comer conveys emotion with his music in such an incredible way. No matter what he's singing, he pours out his heart in a way that people need to hear. It shows in the way he cherishes singing with his friends. One example of that is when he had his birthday celebration show at Southgate Revival House. If you didn't know it was Coy's birthday, you wouldn't have been able to tell because when he sang, he wanted all his friends to sing with him. Another example of that was one of the times he was featured at Crooner Circus when he sang “Something Killing Me”. Aimee Jo was on the keyboard and Noah sang back up. One of my favorite times hearing a musician sing their original songs is when there's another musician sitting near me and harmonizing along. I was blessed to witness this happen and also hear Brandon Gray singing along in the audience. It was truly one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever had the chance to see.
Coy has a song that he wrote about his dog that passed called “I'd Do Anything”. I love this song because it's something that everyone can relate to if you've lost someone you love, someone you wish you had just a little more time with. Whether it's a spouse, family member or even a pet. And I think that's the sign of a great song.
Another story that Coy told was the time he had a friend that needed to move, but couldn't take their piano. So Coy volunteered to hold it for them and give it back when they were ready. I think that speaks a lot about the character of a person to help someone when they truly need it.
Sometimes when I write about a musician, I try to think of one single word that I feel when I get to know them, and for Coy that word is “cherish”. I feel like this says everything about Coy’s character:
protect and care for (someone) lovingly.
hold (something) dear.
keep (a hope or ambition) in one's mind.
I cherish the blessing it is to know Coy Comer, and it is evident that he feels the same way about his friends and family.
MUSICIAN INTERVIEW:
What is your name?
Coy Comer
Where were you born?
Cincinnati, Ohio
How old were you when you started singing?
I started thinking I was a songwriter around the 4th grade (so 2004). But I’m sure some would say I still can’t sing. Ha. It’s a weird one for sure because everyone does it… it’s just whether it’s good or not. Which good can also be relative.
I started singing in church youth group in 2006. That’s also around the first time I ever played an original song I wrote in public.
Who influenced you as a child to sing?
My mom would make up songs and sing them to me. She is the one to claim she gave me the songwriting bug.
Which musicians influenced you to sing?
I grew up in the small town of Russell County (Russell Springs/Jamestown) and attended 1st - 12th grade there.
Here’s the long answer… There were three local bands Change 58, All Hope Found, and Nine Ball. These bands were a big influence on me as a musician. I got to know a lot of those guys and most of them are like bigger brothers. They showed me just about every other band that was influential to me.
For TLDR - City and Colour, John Paul White, Emery, and Aaron Gillespie (Underoath, The Almost). There’s more that also belong on this list but I said I was keeping it short. Ha.
Do you have any original music?
Yes! I think it’s an important thing about being a musician. Even if the songs never go anywhere other than from pen to page and sung sitting on the couch it’s got a purpose. Most of the time it takes 100 songs to get to the one good.
If I do covers it’s either an artist/band of influence or a song that my parents enjoyed when younger.
What inspires you to write music?
That’s the wrong question to ask a creative. Ha. Easy and short is everything. A lot of times it’s pulling from my own personal life along with mixture of things.
What instruments do you play?
Guitar and Bass are my main instruments. Piano is my favorite writing tool and release because I know some music theory but not enough to make everything a happy accident.
Other instruments I play are Ukulele, Mandolin, Dulcimer, and Drums/Percussion (probably a close tie with guitar for favorite and is partially why I can dabble at piano. Thanks to three years of band class.) - if I had a space to practice drums is a great way to get some emotions out and have fun.
What genre do you like to play?
Officially I’d say Indie Singer/Songwriter with hints of folk and Americana.
Unofficially - Indie Whatever is the genre kinda referred to.
What is your favorite quote?
“Every creative person, and I think probably every other person, faces resistance when they are trying to create something good...The harder the resistance, the more important the task must be.”
- Donald Miller, a Million Miles in a Thousand Years
What is your most embarrassing moment on stage?
There’s lots! I’ll give one of the more recent. I forgot my microphone clip for my stand. This meant I had to duck tape to the stand. Wouldn’t of mattered if a fellow musician and songwriter wasn’t hanging out at the show. Again probably not the first nor the last.
What was your proudest moment on stage?
I was apart of a band called Brilliantly (genre: piano indie rock) We were direct support for Emery. Craziest crowd I’ve played for and the interaction had with my heroes/influences was nuts. Felt like a dream. Since playing solo I’d say getting to play Crooner Circus after Alyssa and I had our son Garrick. Having them along with our music family in the same room was a proud new dad moment.
What is your favorite song to sing and why?
Original song I would say “Something Killing Me”. It’s special and not completely sure why but it sticks with people and it’s amazing to see a room of family and friends react to it. It’s got this spiritual vibe to it that makes it almost feel like worship and act of surrender. That being said it is connected to personal struggles of myself and struggles I watched friends go through. So there is some pain attached which might be the reason why people connect with it.
Cover would be any Noah Gundersen song but currently “Sleepless in Seattle”. Simply because it feels like I wrote it. Which I guess is me connecting with it personally.
It’s also cool cause they were released close to each other.
What is your least favorite song to sing?
“Every Moment” because I was younger when I wrote it. I have a line about I’m playing at a small hole in the wall not even getting paid.” I love the line still but it causes a tension in the room so I feel like it’s off putting sometimes. It’s also Alyssa’s favorite probably because it wasn’t written about her. Haha
If you could perform with one star, who would it be and why?
This question is so hard! So I’ll cheat and say artist and band. The band would probably be Emery. They’ve had a large impact on me and besides Hawthorne Heights are one one of the longest lasting bands from the scene.
Artist would be Dallas Green (City and Colour). Again huge influence as an artist and songwriter. I cut my teeth learning his songs and they’re things that made impacts on me (I.e. gear). I bought a fuzz pedal because of the song “Fragile Bird”.
Honorable mention and equally great is John Paul White. Amazing guitarist and writer.
All influenced my writing style and how I play. Legitimate had a realization after seeing JPW live and watching a guitar tutorial he made that I naturally wrote guitar parts imitating him and instead learned something he does and make it my own.
What do you do in your free time?
Music. Haha. I love being outside and in nature. So hiking, camping, and climbing (bouldering to be exact.) Also riding my motorcycle. Spend time with family!
What new songs are you working on?
There’s a lot in different stages and various lives. Goal for this year is to write more and hone in on the craft more. Hoping to release some new music in the near future.
Where is your favorite place to perform?
Southgate House Revival because of the musician relevance and history in the city. I saw a lot of my favorites there.
Close second would be the 86 club. One cause it’s super close to Mike’s Music. Secondly cause of Chris Human. He gave me a real chance to grow as an artist and one of the first people to believe in me as a songwriter.
Who do you like to perform with?
Easy one I think. The Crooner Circus crew always fills me with joy. I think there is magic to an event like that. It’s always special. If I had to pick just a few Brandon Gray, Sarah Gorak, Aimee Jo, and Tyler Strittmatter. Again I said easy really meaning hard to narrow down the amazing artists in the city and your friends. Haha.
If you won the lottery, what's the first thing you would do?
Probably buy my dream guitar… which changes sometimes but for the most part would be a Gibson L-00 or a Martin 000.
Who do you give thanks to?
I thank my wife Alyssa for putting up with a musician in the house and being my partner in crime and mother of our sweet baby boy, My son Garrick for bringing a whole new meaning to life and joy. Keep smiling!
My parents Bonita and Kelly Comer! Both shared a love for radio and music at a young age. As my dad would say, “I hate you but I love you!” Follows shortly after asking if I could play a song he likes. My mom’s version was, “always play pretty”.
Huge thanks to Roy Wariner for stopping at our yard sale all those years ago cause you saw a guitar. You took myself and many other students under your wing and taught us how to play guitar. I owe a lot to you! I’ll always remember you!
My longtime band mate and friend Cody Smith for always being honest and playing drums!
All my friends: Chris Human, Dan Cress, Phillip Moore, Sam Wade, Tyler Strittmatter, Noah Smith, Michael Moeller, Joe Morse, Sarah Gorak, Aimee Jo
I also would like to thank the following in honor and remembrance:
My Mom Bonita Lee Godbey-Comer (thanks for loving me and pushing me to be the best version of myself. You’ll always be my No. 1 Fan.), Coy Godbey (thank you for my name and always listening to me. Maybe one day I’ll go country.), Mary Godbey (reminding me of who I was named after and love of biscuits), Roy Wariner (amazing storyteller, teacher, and musician).
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